Question: IS IT OK To give a man money?


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Answer #1:

BIGBIG NONO

this sounds like a scam to me.

ive heard many of them


DO NOT SEND ANYMORE MONEY

trust me...

Answer #2:

It sounds like you've been used and there's nothing you can do really unless you take him to court. But to do that you need evidence that he promised to pay you back (a letter, email, voice recording, etc). If not then the court won't take it seriously. They'd say it was your fault for trusting someone who you hadn't met before.

Answer #3:

It is definitely a scam I'm afraid. Please answer my question:
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Answer #4:

don't call him defiantly don't send him any money sit back and watch what happens!!

Answer #5:

hahah you have been scammed, classic nigerian scam happens to those who lost their mind to lust be careful nest time you are not going to see that money again hahaha because you sent with western union I would be careful nest time this clearly was idotic and a hard earned lessson.

Answer #6:

You were definitely scammed by this guy--I don't think you have any legal recourse, just take it as a lesson learned: Never tell anyone you meet online your real name & NEVER loan them money!! (How could you possibly trust someone you have never even met face-to-face? I had no idea that there were still people that gullible on this planet, but I guess there wouldn't be any con men if there weren't women they could con, would there?)

Answer #7:

no tell him to go scamsome 1 else... hes a scaming douche

Answer #8:

You have been scammed. You need to alert FBI for internet fraud. Get his address or picture sending you need to send him money or something. Then contact FBI. It is not just for you, it is also for other people. Trust me, he also ask other people for money. You are not his only one.

Answer #9:

I just skimmed thru the story, but no man is worth your valuables unless he's your husband. Stop giving that man you money and do something nice for your self. I went thru this with my ex. He was a psychopath "literally" He would lie about silly stuff just to get me to give him money. Dont be a fool no more stop giving him your money.

Answer #10:

jeez girl get some back bone. it was a scam and theres nothing you can do now. all that there IS to do is yell at him and threaten to get the authorities involved for theft (even though the authorities wont do anything) and that should be enough to scare him into giving it back, dont talk to him again

Answer #11:

he has conned you down to the ground, why on earth would u send someone that money u never met before??? just learn this as a tough lesson an never do it again, he has scammed you big time.

you wont get your money back as it was done western union, no way to literally trace the person as address could be false aswell.

Answer #12:

Hi I'm afraid you are being very naive this man will take you to the cleaners if you let him.I do not think you will ever see any money back cut your losses and forget him.Join a local social club and make friends first and enjoy what life has to offer you never know love may turn up when you least expect it.Please don't send him any more money it will only get you deep in debt

Answer #13:

No it is not! You are obviously being scammed. All that thing he said is plain BS. Don’t believe him. A real man would never do something like that to a woman. The only time he would is out of desperation. Same reason why a man would prostitute himself to make both ends meet. Sorry to say this but I really have zero respect for men like that.
You see, there is such a thing called male pride. A man takes pride of being a good provider to his woman and not the other way around. Why do you think most men have a problem with the idea of wearing an apron and doing house work while their wives are at work? Sharing a tab on a date, or letting her woman pay every now and then is generally acceptable. Borrowing money once is a blue moon is tolerable. But making your woman your own bread and butter is a no! NO! Because that would make you a bum.

Second, if a real man is sincere with his woman, he would never allow any issue that would put doubt in his sincerity. Especially when it comes to the issue of money. Unless he thinks you are gullible and stupid, he would never risk his relationship with you because of the doubt of money issue.

I understand because I have a friend who is in the exact same situation. Some guy promised her love, companionship, and all that other bs on the same day that the guy needed money. I tried all I can to warn her that he would be only using her (especially that the guy was not a legal alien and did not really have a stable job). But she would not listen to me, and rather chose to deliberately lie to herself that this man loves her. I understand because like her, you perhaps are looking for love and the promise that it all brings. But I hope, unlike her your not the kind of person who would lie to yourself to make yourself happy. It even came to a point when she gambled her own daughter’s school money so he could support this guys business. There was nothing I could do to make her listen. But I hope by posting this question you are willing to listen. Lose this guy before its all too late for you.

Answer #14:

Are you think in the head or what. NO NO NO NO NO.

Answer #15:

You probably don't want to hear this but this will almost definitely be a scam. There have been loads of very similar occurrences here in the U.K. In some instances people have parted with thousands of pounds. Don't send any more money.

Answer #16:

He is a classic Nigerian scammer. He is not from Texas, he has never left Nigeria. He is NOT a Christian or he never would have asked a complete stranger who he only knew online for any money. Cut off all communication with him. He has lied to you all along and will keep lying to you. He will never visit or marry you, these people are evil and don't care who they rob or hurt.
If he worked for HP and ran a legitimate business, why would he ask YOU for customs fees? That is something HP would be responsible for, not him as an individual, if he were a legal importer. Here is HP's corporate number - call and speak to their HR dept who will confirm this person does not work for them. Click Here

And why would he ask YOU for money for his nephew for college? If his job is high powered enough for him to be sent overseas with work, $200 would be nothing for him. You don't get overseas sales positions unless you are an executive probably making over $150k a year.
You need to report him to the site where you met and might also want to contact the FBI Internet Crime Complaints site Click Here
Anyone who has been on an online dating site has encountered similar stories, they are never for real. The second anyone says they have to travel to Nigeria, Ghana, Russia, Ukraine or any other country known for internet scams, you know you are not dealing with a legitimate person. Anyone who asks you for money for any reason is always a scammer.





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